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IDEA #2. OTHER PEOPLE SHOULD BE ATTRACTED TO MY PARTNER:

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It is our beliefs about ourselves, others Joe Looney Jersey , and the world which prompt us to take the actions that we do. If, for example, we believe that we need to control our partner to protect our love relationship, then we will do it--even if it is self-destructive. It is also our beliefs which prompt us not to take action when action would be the best thing to do. If Bo Scarbrough Jersey , for example, we do not love ourselves, it is hard to believe that others could really love us either. For that reason, many people spend most of their energy trying to protect themselves rather than to truly love their partner. Healthy relationships require us to change our unhealthy beliefs.

Learning to have a great relationship entails more than just what to do on a date or learning the best position for having sex. Great relationships are only possible when people overcome their insecurities; become the kind of person that they love; see Mike White Jersey , respect, and love their partner as they really are; and make the relationship part of the bigger picture of a great life.

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